Tantric ritual

Tantra can be also practiced as a ritual. It can be deepest and most sacred prayer. It is the union of love, the unity of souls. Tantra is meeting of human beings on all possible levels. Bodies, minds and hearts will all melt into together. Two will become one. When you become one with the other, you will at that moment become also one with the whole existence. When you join into other human being, you will join into the universe.

Divine within us will unite. Divine feminine and masculine energies will meet and dance together. They will melt together in deep union, and two opposites will become one. This is the highest union, Unio Mystica.  

Approach other person as the manifestation of divinity. Feel yourself as the manifestation of divinity. Other partner will take the nature of feminine energy, and the other one will take nature of masculine energy. If partners are of same gender, they can choose their roles in this ritual. Roles can also be reversed, because everyone includes both sides within themselves.

Two opposites will create tension between them. This tension is the sacred flow of energy, our living energy. New life will be born in this encounter, as the source of feminine and the source of masculine energy dance together in the dance of love. This encounter happens within the temple of our bodies. In tantric practice, the sacred sex is the highest form of worship.

Your bodies are physical manifestations of divine; they are temples of your souls. When your bodies will become one, your souls will also become one. Divine that lives within us all will meet, and unite with everything in the cosmic union. This oneness with all is the highest form of worship, and the most beautiful prayer. This is the sacred unity.

Ritual of reverence
Ritual of caress
Ritual of love
Ritual of union
Dance of Divine



Prepare your temple

All rituals will begin with the preparations. The sacred space can be created with the right intent, and with preparations. Create your own place of worship, the stage of your encounter. You can prepare this place to be the holy temple for your loving encounter. Choose suitable place for this ritual. Arrange enough time for the ritual, and take care that you will not be disturbed or interrupted in any way.

Decorate your temple beautifully. Decorate it with colors and flowers, candles and fragrances, and you can create the atmosphere of beauty and sacredness. Add some beautiful and wordless music, and prepare light meal. Tantra is celebration of life; it is celebration of all senses.

Prepare your body

Wash and clean your body gently and lovingly. Clean your heart and mind at the same time. Wash away all worries and sorrows. Let all thoughts and emotions be washed away with water. Wash away all conceptions and prejudices. Become once again pure and innocent. Become open and receiving.

Dress in a light rope or a dress that is used only for this purpose. Now you are ready to meet your beloved. You are again pure and innocent. You are ready to meet the divine directly.


Ritual of reverence

See divine in your partner, and feel it in yourself.

Meet each other openly and lovingly. See the divine in each other, and feel it in yourself. Your partner is the cosmic Male energy or the cosmic Female energy for you. You are same to your partner. Meet each other devotedly and reverently. This is a sacred moment, meeting of divinities. Divine is in everything. It is in our partner, as it is in us.

See other person as the manifestation of divine. Another person is cosmic feminine or Masculinity for you. See divine in their eyes and their whole being, feel it in the other. Feel it in yourself, for you are other side of this divinity. Experience it in yourself, be the universal manifestation of feminine or Masculinity.

Revere divinity in each other

Exchange gifts with each other. Give something beautiful, like a flower. You can also give something you have made yourself. Exchange gifts, and show your respect. Greet each other, and recognize true essence of yourselves. You will be cosmic divinity to each other. Greet each other; ‘Divine in me greets divine in you’

Share sacred meal together

Eat the sacred meal together. Share a light meal. Sit close to each other, touching gently, and feed each other. Serve each other, and your will serve divinity in yourself. Food is a gift. It is celebration of life. Bless food you eat, for this is Holy Communion of love.


Ritual of caress

Revere divinity with the touch

Use perfumed oil, and worship each other with your touch. Receiver one will lay down on the bed, and giver will touch her lovingly. Giver will massage and caress receiver gently and lovingly, spreading oil on the whole body.

Give all your love and reverence with your touch, and let it flow through your fingers. Let divine in you touch other one. Feel the divine touching your lover through your hands. Caress other one as you would caress divine itself. Love and worship the divinity with your hands, with your caress.

The receiver accepts this caress lovingly. When you receive in turn, relax, and let all tensions disappear. Trust the touch of others, feel reverence and love in it. You are now safe and loved by divine. The cosmic divinity is caressing and touching you now. Let the divine love you.

Change the receiver and the giver in turns. Both will revere and be revered.


Ritual of love

Worship with love, and awaken the fire

Love each other with your touch. Love with kisses and caresses. Love with your eyes and your voice. Love divine that other one is for you. Male energy loves female energy, and enters deep into the embrace of cosmic feminine. Feminine energy loves male energy, and embraces the cosmic masculinity.

Look into the eyes, and see the divine in each other. Caress each other bodies, and worship the beauty of them. We are all sacred and beautiful. Body is your holy temple. See and experience this sacredness, this beauty in you and your partner. Worship divine in your partner with your loving touch, and be worshipped.

Awaken the fire within you. Awaken the passion and desire. River of life will flow between you. That energy will warm you, and make your bodies hotter. Enjoy that fire of life. When you are ready, join together. Cosmic male enters inside of the cosmic female. Ask always permission for this, for you will enter into the most sacred place. Male energy will enter into the holy temple. When you join together, divine in you will join into the sacred embrace.


Ritual of union

Create union of souls

Rest within each other's' laps. Feminine energy will rest in the embrace of male energy. Look each other deeply into the eyes. Breathe on the same rhythm. Begin to move together in the same rhythm. Hold hands, and start swinging gently and lovingly, together.

Relax in the embrace of each other, moving slowly and gently. Keep inner fire burning with touching and loving. Let your bodies move at the same rhythm. Feel connection between you. Relax together in this loving embrace. Forget the end, forget the rest of world. There is only this embrace, this loving motion, this love. It is the divine encounter of the cosmic masculinity and feminine. Within this embrace you can spend the eternity.


Dance of Divine

Dance together the eternal dance of divinity

When you dance together, flow of your energy will grow and expand. You will be filled with the sacred flow of life. This energy will seek way out, it wants to flow freely. You can feel it as tension in your bodies. Fire will burn in you in the brightest flame. At that moment is time for the universal dance of Male and Female.

Make love consciously, being present. Other partner is manifestation of masculinity, and will enter deep into the being of other one. Be active energy that flows into the other. Give all your energy to your partner; let it flow freely into other one. Touch consciously, touch the divine feminine, and immerse yourself into the embrace of feminine. Give everything to that embrace, give it your whole being. Dive deeper into the embrace of love.

Feminine will receive masculinity. Embrace your lover with your whole being. Receive the other one into yourself, into your heart, into your essence. Be loved by divine, and embrace divine within yourself, take it all into your being. Your partner will be immersed into you, and will enter deep into the depths of your being. Be divine Female, all feminine, and embrace Male, all masculinity, with your whole being.

When your energies will rise to the top, and you feel need of release, then shift directions. Now other one will be the Giver, Male, the pure masculine energy that will flow and enter into the being of other. Now other one will be the Receiver, the divine female, all embracing divinity, all feminine energy. Energy transforms and assumes new form. Energy changes its direction between you. Opposite forces will shift their positions. Go on like this, and when energy will again rise to the top, shift again directions.

This is how female and male energies dance together. They flow into the other, and become one. Nature of energies change to opposite. It will begin to circle between you. It will grow in strength. Energy of life will create connection between you, and it will build the bridge between your hearts. It will connect two bodies into the flow of energy of life. It will melt you together.

At that moment you can feel oneness with everything. Energy, power of life, flows now freely between you. You will share the same living energy, the same flow of life. When this embrace starts transforming your energies, follow into it. Let it flow through you as fierce flow of energy of life. Let it shake and tremble you. Shout out your passion in this ecstasy. Let your body move freely, and surrender to this eternal flow.

Stay on that moment forever. Dance together this dance of love and life. Bathe on that sacred energy, enjoy the flow of oneness. Let your bodies dance together. Let the power flow through you, and lift you up into the new heights. In this kind of embrace, gates of paradise will open to you. You will feel true union between you. You will become one with all that is. This is cosmic union, Mystical Union.

This is sacred sex, meditation of love.
In the end, rest at each other's embrace. Caress gently, and enjoy afterglow and harmony. Feel glow of love and connection between you. In this embrace of love you can feel peace and safety.




These rituals can be developed and changed to fit your own needs. You can do them for whole day. You can also create your own rituals. Using same ritual every time will help you find the experience of Tantra every time you practice it.


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